At Bespoke Surgical, one of Dr. Goldstein’s goals is to eliminate any shame in having conversations related to sexual health and wellness and to allow people to open up. Dr. Goldstein started to analyze his client’s main issues and realized most of them stemmed from seeing non-LGBT-sensitive surgeons or providers that lacked the true knowledge and understanding of gay sex. At Bespoke Surgical, we believe your doctor should be comfortable and fully capable of analyzing your sexual practices and desires, and provide realistic expectations, all while maximizing your overall health and wellness. There should never be any judgements or biases on what you choose to practice.
Rest assured that as soon as you enter Bespoke Surgical, Dr. Goldstein has your best intentions in mind regarding anal restoration and will lead the initial discussion to ease any tensions on whatever the subject matter is. Being a gay male himself and into all the same things his patients are, this allows for frank and honest discussions to be fostered. 80% of what Dr. Goldstein does is listen and try to understand the concerns at hand. What he finds is that by simply giving his patients the floor, most drop their guards and truly understand that his position is one of healing and assistance.
The anus is not only for defecating—it’s the gateway to sexual empowerment and needs to be viewed in an entirely different context. Professionals need to understand how it’s currently being used or wishes to be used, and how their patients can achieve these goals. Having anal restoration specialists, like Dr. Goldstein, analyze your risks, especially the undiagnosed encounters, and encourage you to perform self-assessment, allows the marginalized subset of the community to be inclusive once again.
Unfortunately, most medical professionals still lack the sensitivities and knowledge as it pertains to not only the appropriate diagnosis — and all things anal — but also the restorative action of anal surgery. This has led Bespoke Surgical and Dr. Goldstein on a social path for corrective action. Where most medical professionals might tell you something cannot be fixed or might prevent you from future sexual engagement, Dr. Goldstein’s expertise generally provides a simple, straightforward procedure, designed with form, function, and aesthetics in mind. The “in’s and out’s” of the technical surgery performed are inconsequential to the ramifications leading up to its correction. Anal restorative procedures realign the physical and psychosocial perceptions, which allows one maximal potential in whatever lies ahead. During this entire process, Dr. Goldstein is able to provide his patients with a better understanding of sexual engagement, which not only helps prevents future injuries, but also maximizes pleasure at the same time.
What’s unique to Dr. Goldstein’s extensive knowledge and experience is that form, function, and aesthetics go beyond just the surgical procedure. It’s the post-operative course of healing, dilating and sexual engagement that truly allows his patients to reach their goals.
Anal restoration allows common ailments and pathologies to be surgically corrected, all with the intention of form and function being reinstated. External and internal hemorrhoids, anal fissures and fistulas, and genital condyloma are a range of the most common pathologies evaluated. The many restoration options available to you include in-office treatments, at-home personal monitoring and care with medications and creams, and/or surgical treatment.
Bespoke Surgical offers the following anal restoration services: